Woman is one such creation of God, whom he has given everything in abundance……looks, intelligence, power of intuition, patience, emotions, caring attitude and the tests of her patience! Right! If we see in the real world, woman is tried every time…..expectations are really high from her as a daughter, as a sister, as a wife, as a lover, as a mother, as a daughter-in-law, she is being tried all the time.
Now when she is an independent one and walking at the same height as the male, she is not seen with good eyes. If a girl is modern and outgoing, people of the society, especially in India think oh….look she is not a good girl…..but why? I mean, if a girl is enjoying, she is bad and if a boy is enjoying then its ok because he is a boy…..this kind of attitude is intolerable!
Today in India and in many parts of the world, women and girls are becoming the victim of the cheap mentality of some dirty minded males, who think that women is a toy from which they can play and pass their time and have fun! They are making girls prey of their dirty needs and girls are facing sexual harassment at work place, sometimes their own friends ruin their dignity, sometimes at home by their own relatives (which is quiet shocking) Crimes like sexual & mental harassment, rape and domestic violence are at their peak against women. The safety of women and girls is at stake and they can’t live freely as every time some pair of dirty eyes is following her and looking out for one opportunity to use her and throw away!
What is more irritating to see is that for such crimes, girls dressing, attitude and clothing are held responsible! I mean, wow…now a girl can’t wear the clothes of her choice and can’t choose where to go and where not and they say that we are living in a democratic countries!!
I believe what needs to be changed is the mentality and upbringing of the boys and males. They must be taught, right from the beginning that they must respect girls and treat them with dignity. To stop the crimes against women and girls, it is required to give strict punishments to those who get involved in such crimes so as to set an example for others…it should be like a warning to others in whose mind such dirty plans are in process. They must have a fear of law in their heart. Females are an integral part of the society as without them continuation of life is not possible and in their absence this world would be like a flower without its scent. Hence, what needs to be done is give HER the wings of love, care, support and respect and SHE will fly higher in the sky of civilization and spread the colors of her achievements!
My only message to all the GIRLS and WOMEN out there is, “Be the Heroine of your life, not the victim.”
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